As you dial a particular number you get a ring and the receiver takes the call and speaks to you… Just like that when you fell in love you DIAL your effort to the particular person and she/ he accepts it then a connection is made.Love is something for which you don’t fill an application… It just happens as life passes by since we are human beings…here I am talking about those who are serious about it… For an example if a person shows a concern care, love, affection especially for you just as your parents does… then what you will feel… you feel that may be he/ she is your betterhalf… We are brought up in such an era where we are not taught about castism, religionsm etc etc..so how could our parents expect that we should look for the same caste and religion.. Now here comes the DRAMA right from our childhood our parents don’t show any sign that they are dipped in the heated oil of caste etc.. When we come at a certain age where we find our soulmate that time they show their real faces even if we haven’t told them ( Epaah ena timing da saami) at that situation we get into a “dilemma” a confusing state…whether to give priority to the person who gave birth to us… Or to the person from which we thought to give birth. At many places our mother blackmails use emotionally… Like I will kill myself or I have done so many things for you…. So I expect you to do only this for me… As if give and take policy… Parents have given everything for us I aceept that but the pain we get from our sacrifice is far more than that. Let’s not make our next generation to be in such “DILEMMA”.